POSITIVITY IS YOUR HAPPINESS
“How can you stay positive in every circonstances?”. There is a lot of people coming to me with this question and I always try to be as honest as possible with my answers.
Life isn’t easy or perfect and it will NEVER be. It’s the same rule for each one of us. People are searching for happiness, trying to do a lot of things and trying to show to everybody : hey, look, I have everything! But for me, happiness is really not these kind of things.
Happiness is a state of mind. It’s not how many things you have, what you have done or what you plan to do. Happiness is something you can create and there is just one thing you need to make it happen : positivity.
I always try to search beauty in everything I put my eyes on. I always try to find the good things in the bad ones. There is always a solution in every problem and there is always a way to just let it be and take it easy.
Example : each day, when I finished school, I couldn’t wait to go back home and take my guitar. I used to play music all night long and I felt really good. It was my personal moments, I was alone and nobody could tell me anything.
But what is that?! Life was created to ENJOY each moment and to discover everything our heart wants to! Today, now that I had some experiences, I feel like I am a totally different person. I do what I want, I share what I love and I just don’t care of what negative people can think. That made a huge difference in my state of mind and it really helps to be positive.
Thanks to my bad experiences, now I know what I have to do to be better. To feel better in my head and to enjoy what will happen in my life, each day.
STAY AWAY FROM BAD VIBES
What is “negative people”? It’s this kind of guys that can ruin a confidence. I have met a lot of negative people during these last two years. Photographers, models or “friends”. They are always complaining, always talking shit about other people (even if they are friends or working together), they are smiling when you have a difficulty, they love to play with hypocrisy and they think they are the best. They want to make you feel uncomfortable and they love that. Bref, they share bad vibes.
At the beginning, I was a little bit confused and I did not dare to answer or to tell my advice about them. But now, it’s finished : I prefer to take care of my energies and to share GOOD VIBES with GOOD PEOPLE. It makes a big difference in life : you don’t ask yourself thousand questions, you share your experiences, you have a good feedback and you simply feel that the relationship is… healthy. Don’t be afraid to choose your circle! It’s really important to take care of it. If you have positive friends, it will be much easier for you to think positive.
WOMEN EMPOWER EACH OTHER
I love to see each one of us succeed. We rise by lifting others! I always try to empower my friends and to help them being confident, happy, strong and proud. Girls with small minds compete with one another. But we are good women with positive thoughts and a beautiful heart, so let’s share happiness together. Let’s help. Let’s congratulate and let’s be happy for the others. No matter what you are in life, inspire the people around you. Success is never reached alone. There will always be one person who will need you. Be open to the others. It can just be positive and don’t forget that you get what you give. If you want good energy, forget the bad ones.
Never forget that your happiness only depends on… you.
Photography by Thomas Masotti