REAL TALK

POSITIVITY IS YOUR HAPPINESS

I used to be really shy. I was someone with a lot of passions, but I was scared, literally. I didn’t have courage to show everything I love and to share my music and my love for fashion. I didn’t want to be jugged, so I thought it was better to do nothing and to be a “normal person“.

Example : each day, when I finished school, I couldn’t wait to go back home and take my guitar. I used to play music all night long and I felt really good. It was my personal moments, I was alone and nobody could tell me anything.

But what is that?! Life was created to ENJOY each moment and to discover everything our heart wants to! Today, now that I had some experiences, I feel like I am a totally different person. I do what I want, I share what I love and I just don’t care of what negative people can think. That made a huge difference in my state of mind and it really helps to be positive.

Thanks to my bad experiences, now I know what I have to do to be better. To feel better in my head and to enjoy what will happen in my life, each day.

STAY AWAY FROM BAD VIBES
What is “negative people”? It’s this kind of guys that can ruin a confidence. I have met a lot of negative people during these last two years. Photographers, models or “friends”. They are always complaining, always talking shit about other people (even if they are friends or working together), they are smiling when you have a difficulty, they love to play with hypocrisy and they think they are the best. They want to make you feel uncomfortable and they love that. Bref,  they share bad vibes.

At the beginning, I was a little bit confused and I did not dare to answer or to tell my advice about them. But now, it’s finished : I prefer to take care of my energies and to share GOOD VIBES with GOOD PEOPLE. It makes a big difference in life : you don’t ask yourself thousand questions, you share your experiences, you have a good feedback and you simply feel that the relationship is… healthy. Don’t be afraid to choose your circle! It’s really important to take care of it. If you have positive friends, it will be much easier for you to think positive.

WOMEN EMPOWER EACH OTHER

I love to see each one of us succeed. We rise by lifting others! I always try to empower my friends and to help them being confident, happy, strong and proud. Girls with small minds compete with one another. But we are good women with positive thoughts and a beautiful heart, so let’s share happiness together. Let’s help. Let’s congratulate and let’s be happy for the others. No matter what you are in life, inspire the people around you. Success is never reached alone. There will always be one person who will need you. Be open to the others. It can just be positive and don’t forget that you get what you give. If you want good energy, forget the bad ones.

As I said, I choose my circle. I choose my friends and I choose the people I work with. Every moment that I share, I want it to be constructive, positive, funny and memorable. So I have to say that I love you and of course, thank you. Thank you for the good things we share together. Thank you for all your beautiful messages and never forget that you can always count on me. I receive a lot of messages with a lot of different questions and there is always this : sorry Sindi if I disturb you. Hey!!! If I can help you for something, don’t hesitate to ask! It’s a pleasure for me to share my advices and to share my experience with each one of you.

Never forget that your happiness only depends on… you.

Xoxo,
Sindi

Photography by Thomas Masotti